“God is good to one and all; everything he does is soaked through with grace.”
Psalm 145:9 (MSG)
As we celebrate Family Month at First Assembly of God Wortmanville (FAOGW), let us examine a critical skill set that impacts our daily living. In a world where self-interest often takes precedence, kindness can indeed be seen as a form of rebellion. As A.W. Pink once said, “Kindness today is a mark of rebellion.” This statement challenges us to reflect on how we can embody kindness in our daily lives, even when it goes against the grain of societal norms.
Let us reflect on three practical ways to express kindness in marriage:
- Listening Actively: In a marriage, taking the time to truly listen to your spouse without interrupting or judging can be a profound act of kindness. It shows respect and validates their feelings, fostering a deeper connection.
- Acts of Service: Small, thoughtful actions like making your spouse’s favourite meal or taking over a chore they dislike speak volumes. These gestures demonstrate love and consideration, strengthening the bond between partners.
- Encouragement and Support: Being your spouse’s biggest cheerleader, especially during challenging times, is a powerful way to show kindness. Offering words of encouragement and being there to support their dreams and goals can make a significant difference.
Ephesians 4:22-24 (NIV) reminds us to “… put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self…”.
In the same way, let us guard against some pitfalls in marriages when we are not kind:
- Resentment and Bitterness: When kindness is lacking, communication can become harsh and critical. Small grievances can build up over time, leading to resentment and bitterness. This can create a toxic environment where both partners feel unappreciated and misunderstood.
- Emotional Distance: A lack of kindness can cause emotional distance between partners. When one or both partners feel neglected or unloved, they may withdraw emotionally, leading to a breakdown in intimacy and connection.
Today may be a good day to start depositing into your kindness account. If you are unmarried, apply the same principles to your family and friends.
Read: Proverbs 11:17; Galatians 5:22-23
Bible Reading Guide: Psalm 33:1-11; Mark 16; Leviticus 25; Leviticus 26:1-13
